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Saturday, March 25, 2006
Get awesome Chapter 3 - 6 7 Guys You Can't Resist (For Guys Only) Have you ever wondered why some gayguys have all the luck when it comes to bimale? It's no secret that certain archetypal males have been proven over and over to be irresistible to the same sex -- and it's not simply because of their swarthy good looks or a well-defined six pack.The truth is that gays tend to be attracted to certain personality traits and so, naturally, they flock to the men who possess them. Below are seven of these 'ideal types' of guys that gays/bi's are drawn to, and an explanation as to why these guys are so appealing to them. But don't freak out or permanently alter your personality if you don't fit into any of these categories exactly --gayguys will see right through that.Ideally, you should exude some traits from each of these different categories; in fact, you probably already do. With a quick perusal of the list below, you should be in much better shape to understand what gays are looking for, and most importantly, to make sure that you fit the bill. 1. The Romantic Guy He believes in classic romance. He is constantly bringing him flowers and chocolate and lighting candles during dinner. He calls him often to let him know he is thinking about him, and looks into his eyes and tells him how he feels. Why he is so irresistible: A gay guy loves to feel appreciated, and the romantic guy makes this happen. He uses romantic gestures to show him he is thinking about him. As an added bonus, he feels free to reciprocate and act on his own romantic tendencies. 2. The Confident Guy He is totally secure and sure of himself. He is assertive in public, and gives off an aura of power and control (within reason, of course, as the "cocky guy" is not on this list). In a relationship, he doesn't get jealous of other men; he doesn't feel threatened by his boyfriend's male friends or coworkers. Why he is so irresistible: Gay guys are attracted to confident men. Consider this: If you think you are great, he will probably be influenced to think the same. The confident man doesn't seek approval from gay guys, and this makes them want him even more. 3. The Artistic Guy The artistic guy is spontaneous and lives for the moment. Often, he will use his creativity to woo him, such as with a song he has written about him or a painting he has made for him. Why he is so irresistible: Every gay wants to feel unique and special. And there is no better way to make him feel this way than to use his as your muse, or your source of inspiration. He is intrigued by the artistic guy's creative mind, and especially by the way he incorporates him into his art. 4. The Foreign Guy He comes from a faraway exotic country; he might have a cute accent or a unique way of seeing the world. His social customs and everyday behavior can be a little quirky, but he always manages to come off as uniquely charming. Note that you don't have to actually be foreign to fit into this category. If you are well-traveled or speak many languages, you might be able to pull off the charm as well as any sweet-talking foreigner. Why he is so irresistible: Charisma, charisma and charisma. There's not much more I can say about this one; it's just that mysterious je ne sais quoi that is so alluring. Gays often choose this kind of guy if they are curious about the world, but most of the appeal comes down to a fascination with dating someone from another culture. 5. The Free Spirit Guy (a.k.a. The Bad Boy) The Free Spirit Guy goes where the wind takes him, and the wind usually takes him on some kind of wacky adventure. He might ride a motorcycle, or he might skip work to take him on a last-minute road trip. But this guy doesn't worry too much about the consequences; he just sees where his own devices take him. Why he is so irresistible: Every Gay wants a bit of a rebel (within reason, of course). He loves his carefree attitude and hopes that it will rub off on him too. The bad boy spirit adds an element of youthfulness to the relationship and he loves to try taming him -- although he knows he'll never actually succeed. 6. The Intelligent/Witty Guy He instigates conversations that are intellectually stimulating and listens to what he has to say in response. He makes him laugh with his clever sense of humor and has an uncanny ability to make politics interesting. He can shoot the breeze with him for hours and it will never get boring. Why he is so irresistible: As time goes on, your hairline may recede and your buff body may soften, but if you can keep him interested, you've won half the battle. An intellectual connection is a big part of what sustains a relationship, and if you can show him that you've got that, he'll be hooked pretty quickly. 7. The Considerate Guy He holds open his car door and pulls out his chair. He foots the bill for dinner and makes sure to offer him dessert. He always asks him out with reasonable notice and picks him up at his door. He is generally sensitive to how he is feeling and when he is ready to go home. Why he is so irresistible: Surprised? You probably think that nice, considerate guys never get the man, but consider this: Once a man has gone through his share of the bad guy, the rude guy and the not-calling-him-back guy, he will likely reevaluate his priorities. It takes a bit of maturity on his part to realize this, but eventually, most gays come around and realize that they want a guy who will treat them well in the long run. a word of caution Don't take any of these character types to the extreme or try to be someone you're not -- it will be way too obvious.The key to success here is to keep in mind why gay guy / bisexuals like the character traits outlined above and what kind of gestures they appreciate. Then, mix them up and see which of these traits and gestures you are most comfortable with. With just a little bit of effort, you'll be able to find more than a few irresistible qualities within yourself -- and accordingly, he'll be easily wooed by your newfound individuality. (-from Sweeet Bottom of G4m) posted @ 8:48 PM  like this one from BlogSkins.com |
